Big Things Require Big Courage

Big Things Require Big Courage

In order to bring any big idea into the world, a certain degree of courage is required, and the amount of courage needed seems to be directly proportionate to the bigness of the idea. Courage is not the absence of fear. Instead, it’s feeling the fear – the...
The 90–10 Principle

The 90–10 Principle

This morning I was reflecting on a memory from my Equus coach training. One of the things that I learned how to do is to walk into a pasture full of horses, pick one out, and halter it. On the surface, this sounds pretty simple. I mean, it’s three steps, and once you...
Commit To Yourself

Commit To Yourself

I recently made a commitment to myself. The deal was, I would show up on my Facebook business page twice per week (Tuesdays and Fridays) with an original, heart-felt post.And then this week happened. It’s been a bit crazy, with appointments and meetings and...
Callings Come With Fear

Callings Come With Fear

The biggest barrier to finding your calling and doing big things in the world is roughly the size of a small almond. I’m referring, of course, to your amygdala – the tiny, prehistoric part of your brain that is responsible for autonomic responses,...
How To Set An Intention

How To Set An Intention

One of my favorite tools in my personal self-coaching toolbox is the practice of setting intentions.Setting an intention is a simple, yet transformative practice. By pausing to get clear on what you want, and taking a few moments to put it into words, you send a...
Focus On What You Want

Focus On What You Want

One of the most powerful lessons I’ve learned is the importance of focusing on what I want, not on what I don’t want. Human beings seem to be hard-wired to focus on negative experiences, a phenomenon known as negativity bias. Some researchers estimate that negative...